Ambitions

Lord willing, these are little life ambitions through which I hope to spread the good news and the hope of the cross. It's amazing how much can change in your mid-20's.  Glad Donald Miller asked me to write these down :)


  • Start a family
  • Facilitate a women's running club
  • Help those who need help understanding Healthcare
  • Be a voice for the hearing impaired community and with insurance companies
  • Be surrounded by kids as much as possible (Faith like a child reminders)
  • Invest in relationships fearlessly
  • Witness the membership of HOSA's 10,000th person
  • Make a home that is open to all and a haven for wanderers/inbetweeners
  • Keep writing


Freeze Tag.

Farthest from my mind is sleep.  But I know I need rest.  Closest to my heart is a desire to fight.  But I forget what I was fighting for.  Then, for a quick moment, I catch a glimpse of the battle.  I hear the sounds, I see the fight, but I don't know what to do.  I'm a freeze frame in a strand of action filled movie clips.

Bogged down by my own expectations and hopes, I had veered off a the path of faithfulness and into the empty place of worldliness.  Filled schedules and lots of people - I had met my best friend, Busyness, again and he had tagged me in this two person game of freeze tag.

Approaching a big event in my new career, I was asked the question. "Does it get tiring?" A friend asked.


"Does what get tiring?" I said.  
"Being 'Lauren Wojcik'?"  I gave some half-wit response that fit the deed and went to sleep thinking about it.

The next morning I looked him in the eye and said, "Only when I forget why I am doing this."

Well, sports fans. I forgot. I forgot why I was walking this walk.  Not just for a moment, but for a hibernation period amount of time.  The desires of the world had casted a sleeping spell over my heart.

This 25-ish age is not what I expected.  I predicted uncertainty and instability.  I foresaw the need for patience and asking hard questions. I was ready for that.

But I didn't think it would be this hard to choose joy.  I didn't think I'd carry anger because of the petty drama from life.  I honestly thought these awesome lips would have been kissed by some strapping young lad by now. I envisioned feeling a little more confident in my faith and in the gospel.

Fear was my enemy in that tag game.  Fear froze me.

I can jump off a 15 foot cliff, scale boulders in caves 4 stories underground, wrangle 32 PE third graders in a game of Gold Rush, long board on Michigan Roads, and tweeze my eyebrows without any fear.

I can run while racing a moped, drive country roads at 3 am, bike downhill with both hands in the air, enter triathlon waters with 30 other fearless women on cold September mornings, and iron large amounts of clothing.

I can't be fearless in a relationship.  I'm challenged by the risk of losing something I love. I fear growing close to someone who could leave. I choose to fear the worst in my friendships and my relationships.

Then I remembered- Jesus didn't leave.  He stayed. He died. He Rose. He is coming back for his team. For my home team. For me.

I heard the nailing. I saw the cross rise. I tasted the body and blood. I melted.

No longer frozen, I remembered - I am loved, I am wanted, I am cherished and forgiven.  I have every reason to love because fear died with Jesus.

And finally, with my hand out the window, the night time sky in the horizon  - I hear the battle, I see the battle, and I am worshiping for a love that is stronger than fear.  I know what I am fighting for.

I choose to fight "With Everything."